♥ DAILY LOVE TIP – Tuesday November 29, 2011
I want to share with you a fantastic short 4 minute video by the wonderful Dr Sue Johnson talking about what is a healthy marriage (committed relationship).
I think this video is a very important 4 minutes everyone will benefit from watching.
YES we do know what happy marriage/relationship is and we know how to make it happen!
It’s about emotional responsiveness – you know how to turn to each other when it really matters –
And answer YES! to –
Are you there for me♥ –
Do I matter to you♥
Do I come first with you♥
And I know that when I need/when I reach for you, you will come….
Says Sue – “When you have that safe emotional bond you can deal with anything!!….”
“Hold Me Tight – Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love.”
Question for you: With regard to your primary committed relationship are you able to answer YES! to – Are you there for me♥ – Do I matter to you♥ Do I come first with you♥ What do you wish for or dream about how the relationships that matter to you are like♥ Share what this video brings up for you with your partner with the ♥MIRRORING format
Another option is to write about “What I am experiencing as I listen to Sue is………………….
Question for you: Are you emotionally responsive♥
A reminder that 1 December, 2011 is almost upon us. The December 30 Day Being-♥LOVE Campaign is a great way to grow your ability to give and receive ♥LOVE….to expand your ability to become more emotionally responsive….
I invite you to challenge your friends or family – your partner, siblings, parents, children – or the other people you regularly interact with to do it with you. Support each other to create more ♥LOVE in your life AND their life.
Please post on the blog WHO you will focus on for the 30 days and WHAT you will be doing – your ACTIONS. It made a real difference to me when doing the 30 Days before stating it specifically…More than I would have imagined!! For example best to make it short and simple as the post from Sandy:
I would like to join with Ben as my receiver. I intend to send him a love note each day (electronic and regular!) Sandy.
I would value you sharing this important video with as many as you can.
Please ♥Like Comment Share. Susie♥