♥ DAILY LOVE TIP – Tuesday January 17, 2012

In fact, how about considering a good habit to make is not to be critical about big things as well as the small things………….remember the ♥ DAILY LOVE TIPSaturday January 7, 2012: S-T-R-E-T-C-H-I-N-G & S-Q-U-I-R-M-I-N-G & getting precious ♥needs met [here’s the link]

– all frustrations and criticisms contain a hidden desire or need and our task is to unpack the frustration and criticism and translate it into a REQUEST for a CHANGE in BEHAVIOUR……

…….and so eliminate ALL criticism!

Love Letter to the World Art Print (free download) : http://www.kindovermatter.com/2010/10/freebie-alert-printable-love-letter-to.html:
Words by Kate Swoboda

I think this poster is a great conversation starter……

In the face of complaints,
selfishness,
insults,
disconnection,
laziness,
extremism or fundamentalism,
controlling behaviour,
“always needing to be right”,
arrogance or bravado,
drama or attention seeking,
accusation,
judgement or comparisons,
passive-aggressiveness,
anger………..
In the face of ferocious hatred, believe in the possibility that there exists the potential for equally as big, intense, lovely and fiery ferocious L O V E.

I really value her re-framing of all of the above……maybe some I would re-frame a little differently…. what about you♥  What other negative characteristics would you include and the re-frame♥

 

Feeling a bit sad and weighed down at the moment by the number of people who put so much effort into ‘the small things’ and take up so much ‘space’ and energy………when there are so many people who are experiencing deep and life-threatening pain who need our attention and care……..

And Yes!!…. those who know me, know that I believe in the possibility that there exists within it all the potential for “equally as big, intense, lovely and fiery ferocious [unconditional]  ♥L O V E.”  …….a thoughtful Susie.