What constitutes a healthy marriage/relationship♥

by susiesheartpathblog on November 29, 2011

♥ DAILY LOVE TIP – Tuesday November 29, 2011

Hello Friends,

I want to share with you a fantastic short 4 minute video by the wonderful Dr Sue Johnson talking about what is a healthy marriage (committed relationship).

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Relationship expert Dr. Sue Johnson addresses what constitutes a healthy marriage.

 

I think this video is a very important 4 minutes everyone will benefit from watching.
YES we do know what happy marriage/relationship is and we know how to make it happen! 

It’s about emotional responsiveness - you know how to turn to each other when it really matters -

And answer YES! to -
Are you there for me♥ -
Do I matter to you♥
Do I come first with you♥
And I know that when I need/when I reach for you, you will come....

Says Sue - "When you have that safe emotional bond you can deal with anything!!...."

Sue has authored many books and publications which present her thorough and comprehensive research. The one that I recommend to explore more into her work is -

"Hold Me Tight - Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love."

 

 

 

Question for you: With regard to your primary committed relationship are you able to answer YES! to - Are you there for me♥ - Do I matter to you♥ Do I come first with you♥ What do you wish for or dream about how the relationships that matter to you are like♥ Share what this video brings up for you with your partner with the MIRRORING format

Another option is to write about "What I am experiencing as I listen to Sue is......................

Question for you: Are you emotionally responsive♥

A reminder that 1 December, 2011 is almost upon us.  The December 30 Day Being-♥LOVE Campaign is a great way to grow your ability to give and receive LOVE....to expand your ability to become more emotionally responsive....

I invite you to challenge your friends or family – your partner, siblings, parents, children – or the other people you regularly interact with to do it with you. Support each other to create more LOVE in your life AND their life.

Sign on at  http://susiesheartpathblog.wordpress.com/30-day-being-love-campaign/ and http://www.facebook.com/events/261494280568488/

Please post on the blog WHO you will focus on for the 30 days and WHAT you will be doing - your ACTIONS. It made a real difference to me when doing the 30 Days before stating it specifically...More than I would have imagined!! For example best to make it short and simple as the post from Sandy:

Hi Susie,
I would like to join with Ben as my receiver. I intend to send him a love note each day (electronic and regular!) Sandy.

May your ♥LOVE-d ones be there for you when you reach,…….LOVE and Blessings ♥SUSIE.

 

 

 

 

 

I would value you sharing this important video with as many as you can.

Please ♥Like Comment Share. Susie♥

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